Hey pals, back to some scribbling..but then I was wondering what to scribble! thats wen sm of my dear frnds helped me out...
Dnt worry...all ur expectations to include your topics will be taken into serious consideration...hmm...hope soon...:)
Well...wt abt some philosophy this tym...hehe...oops..dnt mistake me and dash off...bas thoda sa...
Have you ever thot abt wt to do wen u r down wit our so called colonial word 'desp'?
So let this write up be a sort of suggestions frm my side on the tips to do/nt to do...wen dull and desp...
hehe...the best ointment...dnt talk to any1...haha...I think all of you wil agree with this..seems to be quite familiar rit?(u might also ve done this most of the tym)
So next tym u c sm1 quiet and dull...dnt disturb him/her...who knws might even bash u up!!!
Wt abt some songs? Any melody or fast number (depends on the sort of mood u r into)..result guaranteed...Get ur earphones plugged in (total isolation) and immerse urself into a very peaceful and totally different world...WOW...close ur eyes and feel it NOW…
Well one of my frnd has even suggested smthng more specific...Swathi Thirunal Kritis in Neelambari raga...Guys...tel u smthng, that is gonna be a mesmerising experience...i assure u...bt 1 simple condition..u need to b a classical or aleast semi classical song lover! Which ahem ahem...nwdys rarely any1 is...
Y say more…my dear frnds knw…I alwys tell them to use jst 3 words…'LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL’ and imagine all those wonderful gifts of nature, the moments you cried out of happiness, naughty incidents of childhood...etc..etc…it wont vanish off your pain…bt will definitely deliver a small magnitude of relief (atleast for a short while). Check it out next time and experience the creation of a sweet smile on your face*...(* - as the sayg goes...cant guarantee cent percent result...bt stil...giv it a shot). And do tel me wt and hw u felt...atleast I can modify my thesis :)
Life is not all that bad as it seems to be wen u r down and dull with some probs... alwys rembr...u wil knw the value of a happy moment only wen u come across one on the opposite side...so tak it in good spirits and smile even at your trouble agent...it cant sustain long :)
Well…more than anything…I feel u guys can anytime contact me…well…its nt supposed to be any sort of boasting and all…jst humanitarian character…cant c any1 sad… We can chit chat over your issue…as I have already spoken off in my previous blog…frnds can b a drop of water in a thirsty desert :)...In this context, any of your dear friend can be of gr8 help and relief to u...
And hey…plz dnt contact me at nit…I wud b in deep dreamworld…snoring !!! hehe...
I have more and more tips and tricks with me*…hehe…conditions apply…let comments and suggestions come over the above written points…..
Waiting...
Hi manu,
ReplyDeleteNice topic to discuss on...
hmmmm..... ur ideas 2 overcome desp is quite interesting and i'm sure it works for some people atleast....
For me.... I feel like filling my stomach with yummy food without caring 4 the oily content or even the price of it. i do it most of the times n go to bed with the thought " WHO CARES "... it really works.....:)
n there is 1 more type of desp which is filled with anger.
in this situation i cal up the person who made me desp n yell at her/him. the worst thing to do:(... i think being alone would be d best solution..
Certain times i do day dreaming abt me taking revenge or hurting d person who hurt me n try to be happy. ;) it sounds funny, but gives positive result.
Hey,
ReplyDeleteTht was a good write-up..when I started reading this, I was a little "desp" as mentioned in this post..bt I shud say tht wht u wrote, brought a smile to my face..nw really feeling better dude :)..Good attempt frm ur side to boost up the spirits..keep going..
@Nandana: WOW...that ws really a gr8 honour for a budding writer like me...its a priveldge to get acclaimed from a voracious reader and writer like u...and more over I am happy that atleast sm benefited frm my writing...my day is done :)
ReplyDeleteHi Manu,
ReplyDeleteWell written man.. As you said music, or thinking about the good times you had will really help in our hard times. But i would like to disagree with you on one thing. That is staying alone, when you are desp. Personally i feel that sharing our problems with a dear friend will make us feel better. At times, when people are desp they dont see the brighter side of life, and all they do is keep on worrying about the problems and feel guilty for everything that went wrong with them. They find nothing worth living for. This is where, a true friend helps, helping him, to see the brighter side of things and to froget his problems.
And ofcourse, if the person gets a chance to read something like this, it may just do the job of a friend.
Nannaayittundu, Manu.. Keep going..
ReplyDeleteYes, music is a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiggg relief when you are in some problem... You are absoultely right!! :-)
And, thanks for being there always.. So sweet of you.. :-)
hmmm well to say about the write up... its awesome.. a small correction its mesmerizing not merismerising (heheheh ;))
ReplyDeleteabout seeking your suggestion, i wont see whether its night or day time...kewl
...ey manuettan...u r a good counclr..:)..
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